Tuesday, February 12, 2008

Choices


How many times did we ask ourselves if the choices we've made were the ones we shall never regret?

And how many times did we realise that the choices that we've made each day other revolve around us?

And did we ever realise that at times the choices that we've made were the only choice that we can make?

Aiyah,i'm spoilt for choice.Chet!

Personally im grateful for the wrong choices that i've made in my life coz i would know what to do if i cross on the same course of actions in e future.

Eg 1
I used to have loads of guy frenz in the past, both married & unmarried, but as time passes by, i decided to shy away frm them.Besides knowing the restrictions & limitations, i can't tolerate being accused of husband-snatcher.I cldn't even make myself understand why pple can even think dat far coz im not even your next nicole-kidman nxt door kind of gerl.And the choice that i've made? Stay away frm married man or do-not-be-too-friendly sort when u are wif them.uU nvr know whose heel will come knocking on your head.

Eg2
When it comes to relationship or deciding who u wanna fall in love wif, pls dun choose one who replicate/resemble your ex-love, hubby, wife etc.Worst still u choose to sample on one who fare even worst than your ex partner.I mean, lets do some reality check.If u know u cant tolerate someone who go clubbing or having facebook account behind your back, pls try not to fall in love wif someone who has 38974++ friends in his/her friendster account.You have a choice to continue to fall in love wif him & ended up arguing the same thing over & over again or u can simply find a better man in your nxt cycle of letsfindapartner series.Period

And why am i quoting to u all these examples? Simple.
As human beings, we make mistakes but dun let these mistakes over rule us.Learn frm them so that u wont be the next begok person on earth.

As for now, i wanna make some decisions..and hopefully these decisions that im making are the best choices that i've ever made.

InsyaAllah, ameen.

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